Mittwoch, 17. September 2008

Overnight camping

The summer activities for the children were few this year… summer vacation only lasts 6 weeks and during that time most of the families pack up and leave town. So the number of children in town combined with the overwhelming details involved in getting the new rooms furnished and ready for the fall led to less events. But the ones we had were fun.

We enjoyed one outing to a sand sculpture display. The best in their field, carved intricate artworks from highly compacted sand. They were amazing structures, but the children found it much more fun to go the area where they could build their own. We dug and shaped and ate ice cream and smeared on sun cream. It was a great afternoon. Another time we enjoyed the zoo, and another family outing was to a middle ages festival.

 

The end of the summer event was overnight camping in the garden from one of our church members. Fourteen children from age 2-1/2 to 10 gathered in the early evening to erect tents, set-out sleeping bags and enjoy a grilled supper with their parents. We roasted marshmallows over a small fire and had the evening vespers. Matthi, five years old, had nailed together wood to make crosses for our devotions and for the worship time in the morning. It was his own idea, his father said. Then the children began going to bed… and then again going to bed… and again. It was finally well after eleven before the last ones were finally settled in. Nine of the youngest ones slept in my large tent, borrowed from my former scouting troop.  The older four boys were supposed to settle down in the two man tents. The father of the house had his own tent set-up on the other side of the garden. My two man tent never got fully built. The missing cords and pegs came from my tent set to finish the others.

Numerous trips to brush teeth, go the bathroom and see what the other tents were doing finally trickled down. One of the more precocious 7year old girls started telling scarey stories and talking about snakes (which almost don't exist in Germany). The two almost 4 year old girls decided it was better to sleep in the house with mom. (Good choice… I got to take their place in the big tent.) The five year old boy who got a big frightened by the stories before I could head them off, went in the house with his little sister. Two minutes later he was back. I was sure he had forgotten a stuffed animal… but his words were surprising and touching… with a big grin he said, " I forgot… I only have to pray!" After that he crawled back in his sleeping bag and he was fine.

            As the night got cold, I spent the time raising my stiff body and precariously balancing over small snoring, whistling, mumbling bodies, to stuff them back into sleeping bags and cover them with blankets. They were like caterpillars, constantly escaping their cocoons. I comforted the teary nightmare (same child who told the stories), and shushed the waking and restless ones. With no sleep in sight, in the deep hours of the night I had time to be deeply moved by Matthi's remembering to pray. How many times have I been filled with anxiety or worry or fear because I forgot that all I had to do was pray?

            It still felt that way when the boys in the two man tents began complaining and laughing loudly at 6:15.   The dew had worked its way into their tents and they were soaked to the skin. It was very satisfying to them that the entire camp was awake at 6:30.

The boys went in the house to take warm showers and change into dry clothes. The children quickly flung off their pyjamas, dressed  and began playing in the garden. We slowly got breakfast ready and planned a neighborhood hike to make up for the unplanned extra hour before the worship service.  We found belongings, rolled bags, and enjoyed the cool, clear morning. The children were in amazingly good condition. I looked my age. Everything was right with the world. The pastor arrived along with many parents and we gathered on the terrace to sing and pray and have a sermon.

            By 11:00 it was over, the house was in order, the tents packed in my car and the children sorted out and carried off. It was a wonderful time. I will not mention the (few) later in the day meltdowns and tantrums.

Overnight camping

Sunday in Paul's Church, Pankow

English camp in Pankow

Donnerstag, 22. Mai 2008

Good and Bad

In the last weeks, there was, as with most things, good and bad.

Good was the church family retreat with 27 adults and 23 children, many of whom were taking first steps to learn more about faith. Several non-believers attended with their spouses and most remained for the services and prayer times. One made the comment, "my experience and notion of church, sermons and worship had nothing practical to do with life. But what you preach, the Bible, loving your neighbor you live out authentically. That is something new for us (he and his wife)." Another said that he felt God was trying to reach him and he needed to listen. Click on this picture and go to the Stoddard's web site. Then click on "Gemeindefreizeit" and see the pictures from our weekend at the beach on the Baltic Sea, 3 hours north of Berlin.
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Good this past week of children's conference was sitting at the team meetings in the evening with 22 other leaders to discuss and pray for the next day's events during the Children's conference. As I looked around the table and counted faces, I saw that 16 of the young people there had grown up in our ministry programs and I had had the privilege of seeing many of them come to Christ and then grow in their faith. Bad was being very aware that I was the "grandmother" of the group, with my creaky knees and back! I tried to explain the idea of a "backhanded compliment" to one of my German friends. She didn't quite seem to understand why I thought it may not have been such a great compliment when one of the women (43) said, "Oh, we're so glad someone old like you is along!"


Good was the amazing performance of the young leaders who were creative, committed and caring as they planned, prepared and staffed the children's conference. Bad was getting there and finding out I was expected to lead the evening programs for the youngest group. Surprise!

One of the workshops they led produced a wonderful blacklight performance of "Who Am I?"

Good was the incredible beauty of the country through which I traveled to the Baltic Sea with the church family retreat, then to the Black Forest with the children's conference.

Good was getting back home to my own bed after a church family weekend, back to back with the children's conference. Bad was bringing home the stomach virus and sinus headache that kept me in bed for a couple of days.

Good was realizing the good Bible study I was able to have with one of my women friends. Bad was realizing that I hadn't kept the journal I had committed to trying to develop the spiritual discipline I desired.

Good was seeing the progress being made on gutting the space we have rented for our future church. Bad… was not there to be seen.


Good is learning fun, active, new children's songs. Bad is hearing a part of them over and over in your head long after the music stops… and you can't get the right word.

Good was meeting with my girl's club, baking muffins, reading a Bible story and making photo albums. Bad was that one child's grandmother is dying. Good was being able to talk about the sorrow that God helps us with when someone we love dies and that God has made a way to see them again in heaven.


Good is God is good!

Montag, 7. Januar 2008

Tis the Season!










What a wonderful time this Christmas in Berlin was! Full of celebrations of all kinds but mostly of relationships, old and new. I really enjoyed our combined Christmas Eve service with another local church where i got to share the Christmas story with the children. Afterwards I went to the home of our partner church's pastor, where I shared their Christmas eve dinner and family time. We opened gifts, sang carols and hymns, read Christmas stories to one another and then finished after midnight with baked apples and prayer. I loved being with this family who have come to mean so much to me. Especially with Friedemann, now 26, freshly graduated from seminary and getting married on the 4th and 12th of January. That's right! here you get married at the state office, then for believer's there is a church wedding, too. I will be there to celebrate both. Friedemann and I met when he was sixteen and he has been one of my dearest friends and co-workers in Luke's church. Christmas morning was breakfast with the Stoddards, then a family day together. The second day of Christmas I spent with the Matlacks, (our team leader) and his sister's family. Tammie pulled out pictures of the first Christmas I spent in Berlin, and it was with them as well. Two days later I celebrated Hanne's 44th birthday at the cafe in the church we planted in Friedrichshain where it all began, again until 2 AM. Then came Silvester (New Year's Eve). The Stoddards and Ben, a colleague, came to dinner, then later a new friend from the church plant. Two year old Emma loved the snacks best and took a handful home for later. At 11 PM we walked to Elizabeth's apartment under the roof top, six floors up. We climbed a ladder to the flat roof and watched fireworks explode around us in the air until well after midnight. Here fireworks are legal and there are incredible displays. From the rooftop we had a 360º view of Berlin. I lasted up there for about an hour but was glad to get warm again inside. We shot off the last of the fireworks at 2:30 AM and I walked the mile or so home in the cold smokey air. Firework debris lay everywhere and I thought of the street cleaners who would clear it all away over the next few hours. I woke New Year's Day to a beautiful fall of fat snowflakes and magical landscape of white lace and comforters lain over the previous night's debris. I went for a walk in the local "citizen's park" where dozens of families were creating snowmen, pushing baby carriages, pulling sleds and enjoying the day. I took some pictures and then went home singing praises to the Lord. What a joy it is to have the friends I have found here and to see how God has so enriched my life through them in the last ten years. I wish I could be a twin and be in both places, Berlin and home. I would love to have both my worlds and families next door to each other; to hug you all and share the hours. I send you these pictures, with lots of love and prayers of thanksgiving and blessing for you in the new year.

Vision for the church




HOW MUCH VISION DO YOU NEED TO PLANT A CHURCH?
We are loking for space for our growing "baby" church. We need a good location with walk-by traffic. We need as a minimum: space for worship for 45, two classrooms for children, an entrance area, a small useable kitchen, and toilets. It must have a place to park baby wagons and bicycles. It needs to have a courtyard or access to a park for the children to play. It needs to be accessible by public transportation and private autos without being drowned out by street noise. It must be a ground floor and have neighbors who will tolerate our noise. It needs to have windows that let in light and air (there's no air-conditioning). It must be affordable. 
We think we have found something. We are meeting with the realtor on Friday. Here are a few interior pictures. Incredible? Inspiring? Previously a restaurant on a very busy corner, it has been closed for four years, but has possibilities. We are excited. 
What do you think? Can you see it? Do you have vision for us? Do you see Sunday worship services? A kid's club? English classes? Bible studies? Film evenings? Women's breakfasts? Alpha courses? If this is it or not it, we need your prayers for clear vision, favor with the realtors and neighbors, a good contract, and a united spirit!